Ben’s Journey: Mastering Kink and Exploring Atypical Relationship Styles
Expert Guidance in Polyamory, Kink, and Alternative Relationships
Ben has been exploring alternative relationships and kink practices since his early years, starting his journey in the early 2000s.
Currently married to a wonderful polyamorous wife and raising a daughter, Ben is also involved in D/s dynamics.
His extensive experience spans both kink and polyamory, offering him a unique understanding of the intricacies of these lifestyles.
In the realm of kink and BDSM, Ben identifies as a Dom-leaning Switch with expertise in:
His top priority is always safety, ensuring that each experience is consensual, secure, and fulfilling. This page exists for those seeking authentic, practical help and understanding—someone they can trust to guide them on their journey.
Currently married to a wonderful polyamorous wife and raising a daughter, Ben is also involved in D/s dynamics.
His extensive experience spans both kink and polyamory, offering him a unique understanding of the intricacies of these lifestyles.
In the realm of kink and BDSM, Ben identifies as a Dom-leaning Switch with expertise in:
- Impact Play
- Sensual Play
- Rope and Device Bondage
His top priority is always safety, ensuring that each experience is consensual, secure, and fulfilling. This page exists for those seeking authentic, practical help and understanding—someone they can trust to guide them on their journey.
Educational and Artistic Aspects of Kink, and BDSM
Ben is also involved in creating educational and artistic videos that focus on kink and alternative relationships. These videos are designed to provide valuable insights into safely and responsibly exploring kink, as well as showcasing the artistry behind practices like rope bondage and impact play. Ben’s work in this space aims to promote both education and creativity, offering a deeper understanding of these topics in a respectful and informative way.
Ben’s Expertise in Safe Kink: Educating and Empowering the Community
Contributing Regularly to Articles on
Safe, Consensual Kink Practices
Safe, Consensual Kink Practices
Ben is dedicated to fostering a safe and informed kink community. He regularly writes articles that focus on educating individuals about safe, consensual kink practices. His contributions help demystify kink and provide essential information on how to engage in these activities responsibly, emphasizing the importance of consent, communication, and safety. Through his writing, Ben shares valuable insights that promote positive experiences, helping to create a more inclusive and knowledgeable community.
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Kink is Tango
In Switch-Benjamin's Philosophy, Kink, much like the tango, is a dance of mutual enjoyment and understanding. Both require partners to savour the intricate details, respecting boundaries and rhythms.

Explore Safe Kink with Ben’s Adult Store: A Resource for Quality Toys and Tools
Co-Owner of a Store Dedicated to Safe, High-Quality Kink Products
Ben is also a proud co-owner of an adult store that offers a curated selection of toys and tools designed for safe, enjoyable kink exploration. The store is committed to providing high-quality products that enhance the kink experience while prioritizing safety and consent. Whether you’re new to kink or an experienced enthusiast, you’ll find everything from bondage gear to sensory tools, all carefully chosen to ensure they meet the highest standards of quality and safety. Ben’s store is more than just a shop—it’s a resource for those seeking to explore kink responsibly.
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